Hello, my name is Damien. And I don’t usually talk about my private life, because since I was kid, I was always shy, and as I grew older, it seemed I get more and more shy and drawn into myself. Having a girl was never an option for me, and I thought that was normal so it was never a problem for me not having a girl.
But there was time I really wanted it, and went with friends to bars. Clubs etc. but still nothing, they got girls and I haven’t, wich made me even more miserable. So I stopped doing that and just stay at home a lot and didn’t had much social life at all. Just me and internet.
Surfing the internet one day, I came across a story of 2 people fallen in love over internet, my first thought that it was fake and haven’t pay much attention to it. And one night I was thinking what if it wasn’t fake, what if its real! I was so hyped and tried it first thing in morning. Found a lot of fake sites, and I could not just trust if the girl is real or not. Then I came across cam site, where girls are actually chatting with you with camera turned on, and I could see with who I was chatting!
I tried with few girls but we didn’t seem to have anything in common, until there was one girl wich I thought we could not have anything in common. But we did, and as more and more we talked, I realized I was falling in love. And next few chats I was afraid to express my feelings at all, because I never did it LOL. So next time I asked her if she would like to meet…
Of course she said yes! I was so surprised that a girl actually wanted to go to date with me, but again, I was scared if she is doing it just for fun and that would not show up. But I decided to give it a go, what could I lose. I waited for her at a bar where we decided to meet. She was late 15 minutes, and I already started to feel bad, and started to pack to go home, but then there she was, I could not describe how happy I was at that moment, we hugged and she sat across me, and I stared at her, just could not believe she was there!
We had amazing night, and I could not realize that I was so relaxed with a girl, maybe it was because of her, that made me so relaxed and that she looks inside of a man, and not how he is from outside. We went home and I could not sleep of excitement! Tomorrow I sent her message if she would want to go on a date with me again, she said yes! I thought this could be a real relationship.
The day was same as last time and I was more relaxed, and even tried to kiss her on lips at end of date, and she was up for it. So I guess we are in relationship from that point. We are now together for 2 years, and who would have ever know that I could meet a girl of my dreams online on camera dating site, its just amazing. If anyone have a problem like me, with lack of confidence, you are welcome to try datecamgirl.net, IT CHANGED MY LIFE!
When you see a site like this, your first thought is that everything is fake etc.. They just want to lure you in and just stay there. Well I had same opinion, until I tried to actually do something and have a woman in my life. I enjoy simple things in life, and in city of Memphis, and our music street, you can just find everything you like, and just relax. That is what I like to enjoy on weekends, and over work days, I was just too busy for anything.
At start I didn’t had much luck with girls, so I decided to put all my effort into work and my work career. Slowly I forgot to think to meet a girl somewhere, or at least try, didn’t really had with who to go out at the moment. As I told before, I knew about datecamgirls.net before, but always had bad thoughts about it, and did not want even to try it. And there were so many commercials about sites like those, like they knew I need to meet a woman lol.
I ignored all of them, except this one, that camera option got me hooked, and more interested about it. I thought if I could see a girl, I could see how she reacts to my messages, maybe see how she actually feels about me. So what the hell, I decided to try it.
It was strange at first, lots of people are on that site. And lots of man were better looking than me, so in my head I was here just to look at the girls, and see if they are really on camera. And they were, but after a couple of messages I would just left the chat, maybe lack of confidence, or we didn’t had much to talk about, and mostly it was me. After I saw all the girls there, and that is real, I still could not believe you can actually meet a girl there and like that.
Maybe I was old fashioned. But since I joined the site, let me try it. So with next girl I said to myself I would stay in chat with her as long as she wants to, I won`t leave at all. The most girls I talked to after that were just into going out at clubs, bars etc.. I mean I was ok with that sometimes, but life is not just going out and getting drunk. But as I promised to myself, I would not stop talking to a girl, so they usually stopped, and I could understand it since we haven’t had much in common.
But right after that I started talking to a girl that plays saxophone, I got interested right away! Of course asked her right away does she ever go to music street here, and she said yes, especially in weekends, haha, can this be real! But of course, my opinion kicked in as from start, that the girl is just saying this just because I wrote it on my profile.
Anyway, I just enjoyed that I could had interesting conversation with her, and kept it going. I hope it was as interesting for her as it`s for me. Since I had doubts about everything lol, I didn’t asked for a meeting, she did, but I said, since we both love music street in our city, lets meet in that street and enjoy some music together, and they music was never too loud, so we could talk comfortably. And we met there.
She was really positive person and always smiling, we were not super hot, but we were right for each other, and we had no problem with that. We enjoyed lots of good music that night, some wine, and some ice cream also. It was hard to adapt that I am actually in that street with a girl on a date, I guess my beliefs are now different. A situation like this makes you realize how stubborn I was and that my mind had a limit that I was not able to overcome. But thanks to this site, really, I was able to think outside of the box, and just enjoy time with a girl, to see for myself that everything is better doing with a person you like, and not always alone.