See why it`s good to hire a dating coach in New York

Published on | written by : Marco from New York

Hello, my name is Damien. And I don’t usually talk about my private life, because since I was kid, I was always shy, and as I grew older, it seemed I get more and more shy and drawn into myself. Having a girl was never an option for me, and I thought that was normal so it was never a problem for me not having a girl.

NYC dating coach

But there was time I really wanted it, and went with friends to bars. Clubs etc. but still nothing, they got girls and I haven’t, wich made me even more miserable. So I stopped doing that and just stay at home a lot and didn’t had much social life at all. Just me and internet.



How I found good dating experts

Surfing the internet one day, I came across a story of 2 people fallen in love over internet, my first thought that it was fake and haven’t pay much attention to it. And one night I was thinking what if it wasn’t fake, what if its real! I was so hyped and tried it first thing in morning. Found a lot of fake sites, and I could not just trust if the girl is real or not. Then I came across cam site, where girls are actually chatting with you with camera turned on, and I could see with who I was chatting!

I tried with few girls but we didn’t seem to have anything in common, until there was one girl wich I thought we could not have anything in common. But we did, and as more and more we talked, I realized I was falling in love. And next few chats I was afraid to express my feelings at all, because I never did it LOL. So next time I asked her if she would like to meet…

Of course she said yes! I was so surprised that a girl actually wanted to go to date with me, but again, I was scared if she is doing it just for fun and that would not show up. But I decided to give it a go, what could I lose. I waited for her at a bar where we decided to meet. She was late 15 minutes, and I already started to feel bad, and started to pack to go home, but then there she was, I could not describe how happy I was at that moment, we hugged and she sat across me, and I stared at her, just could not believe she was there!

Met with dating coach

We had amazing night, and I could not realize that I was so relaxed with a girl, maybe it was because of her, that made me so relaxed and that she looks inside of a man, and not how he is from outside. We went home and I could not sleep of excitement! Tomorrow I sent her message if she would want to go on a date with me again, she said yes! I thought this could be a real relationship.

The day was same as last time and I was more relaxed, and even tried to kiss her on lips at end of date, and she was up for it. So I guess we are in relationship from that point. We are now together for 2 years, and who would have ever know that I could meet a girl of my dreams online on camera dating site, its just amazing. If anyone have a problem like me, with lack of confidence, you are welcome to try, IT CHANGED MY LIFE!

Get on successful date in New York

When I first moved to NY, I never even thought I would be interested in finding a girl. My first and only priority was to survive in that city, paying rent, food etc.. I barely make it but I make it. As months go by I started to get really good at my work and I got paid more and more. Which is good, and allowed me not to be so worried about my rent. I could think a little bit more about my life now, other than work. I started to think to go to bars to meet girls, but I had no good friends in work except people that were like me, anti social and just working all day.

I wanted to have a girl in my life, I wanted it so bad. I tried to go to bars alone, but for a shy guy like me, in such big city, there was no chance. One night I was surfing internet and came across, NY dating coach, first I thought it was just some group of people wanting to get some money and provide no services.

But when I called them, they were really serious about their work, and they have been doing it for a long time already, so I was more and more interested should I do it or not.

Finding a date in NewYork

I didn’t want to rush it, so I slept over it, and thought in morning. This is good idea for me since I don’t have some real friends in this city yet, and also, if it was possible to be taught that “skill”. I called the guy and we arranged a meeting, and we went for it this weekend, even thou he explained all of it to me, I still thought it was some bullshit, but since I decided to try, I will try it.

Next weekend we went out to one bar, he explained me some stuff and he said go for it, I was so confused, didn’t knew what to do, like he threw me in pit with lions. But I assumed that was the best way to do it. I tried to approach few times, and I went half way, but just could not start conversation, something was blocking, didn’t knew what. I guess working all the time made me rusty, and like I have to learn all about girls all over again.

I came back to him, and he said, let`s do it together, we will find two girls and it will be easier, as he will do much of the talking. We approached two girls that were sitting alone at the table, he started to talk and introduced us both to these girls, that were, as I thought, way above my league. He talked and made them laugh, and also asked me few questions so I could be included in conversation.

It felt so good, the more I talked, the more I felt relaxed. At end we spent 2 hours at their table, but for me, it only felt like it was 10 minutes. Such a good feeling! Of course he asked for their phone number, and the girl I was talking to actually gave me her phone number!! I was so thrilled. Wait till tomorrow when you wake up, and then call her, not text her, that`s what he told me. I knew it would take me a lot of courage to actually call her the next day, but I did. Asked her if she would like to repeat something like that, but of course, this time me and her alone. And again she said yes!

A total NEW dating experience

Amazing feeling indeed, next week we went on date, and we kissed for first time, such a romantic feeling. After some time I told her that I actually hired a dating coach to help me with girls, and she laughed because she had same opinion like me. She thought that thing is not real, but I assured her it is, and I am glad that is she ok with it, because I really like her and we are great couple, at least for me LOL. But it turned out for her too. We are now together as a couple living together, and can you guess who made me to write this story? That`s right, her :).

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This seem interesting, a normal guy like me, i will try and see if i have any luck like you.
4 minutes ago | Leave comment
Awesome man, thank you
6 minutes ago | Leave comment
One of my friends is also on that site, maybe it`s time i join in.
7 minutes ago | Leave comment
I totally trust this, that is how me and my future husband met, a lovely story :)
9 minutes ago | Leave comment
Just enjoyed reading this, a nice way to put it, gratz man!
11 minutes ago | Leave comment
Has anyone here tried their luck on site?
12 minutes ago | Leave comment
I guess that is good chance for people that work a lot.
15 minutes ago | Leave comment
My husband actually met a girl like that when he was younger, he told me story, so i think for some people it works.
19 minutes ago | Leave comment
Really love this blog, amazing story, as an romantic soul i love to read something like this.
21 minutes ago | Leave comment
Keep going man, love your blog
22 minutes ago | Leave comment
I would like to join, did anyone else had experience like this?
25 minutes ago | Leave comment
I also heard of these sites, this story got me thinking now even more.
27 minutes ago | Leave comment
I love online dating, just gives you another confidence, i am on that site and i love it!
29 minutes ago | Leave comment
How can i join that site?
29 minutes ago | Leave comment
I too have heard of this site, and i heard a lot of story, but one is far the best!
30 minutes ago | Leave comment
Joined today, wish me luck..
31 minutes ago | Leave comment
Thanks man, you just gave me motivation for finding the love of my life.
1 hour ago | Leave comment
I am on that site, talked to several man and nothing, but this story gave me hope that there are good and nice man out there, you just need to look for them, amazing story!
1 hour ago | Leave comment