Philadelphia Dating Coach

Published on | written by : Marco from Philadelphia

Hello, my name is Damien. And I don’t usually talk about my private life, because since I was kid, I was always shy, and as I grew older, it seemed I get more and more shy and drawn into myself. Having a girl was never an option for me, and I thought that was normal so it was never a problem for me not having a girl.

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But there was time I really wanted it, and went with friends to bars. Clubs etc. but still nothing, they got girls and I haven’t, wich made me even more miserable. So I stopped doing that and just stay at home a lot and didn’t had much social life at all. Just me and internet.



How I found matchmaker in Philly

Surfing the internet one day, I came across a story of 2 people fallen in love over internet, my first thought that it was fake and haven’t pay much attention to it. And one night I was thinking what if it wasn’t fake, what if its real! I was so hyped and tried it first thing in morning. Found a lot of fake sites, and I could not just trust if the girl is real or not. Then I came across cam site, where girls are actually chatting with you with camera turned on, and I could see with who I was chatting!

I tried with few girls but we didn’t seem to have anything in common, until there was one girl wich I thought we could not have anything in common. But we did, and as more and more we talked, I realized I was falling in love. And next few chats I was afraid to express my feelings at all, because I never did it LOL. So next time I asked her if she would like to meet…

Of course she said yes! I was so surprised that a girl actually wanted to go to date with me, but again, I was scared if she is doing it just for fun and that would not show up. But I decided to give it a go, what could I lose. I waited for her at a bar where we decided to meet. She was late 15 minutes, and I already started to feel bad, and started to pack to go home, but then there she was, I could not describe how happy I was at that moment, we hugged and she sat across me, and I stared at her, just could not believe she was there!

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We had amazing night, and I could not realize that I was so relaxed with a girl, maybe it was because of her, that made me so relaxed and that she looks inside of a man, and not how he is from outside. We went home and I could not sleep of excitement! Tomorrow I sent her message if she would want to go on a date with me again, she said yes! I thought this could be a real relationship.

The day was same as last time and I was more relaxed, and even tried to kiss her on lips at end of date, and she was up for it. So I guess we are in relationship from that point. We are now together for 2 years, and who would have ever know that I could meet a girl of my dreams online on camera dating site, its just amazing. If anyone have a problem like me, with lack of confidence, you are welcome to try, IT CHANGED MY LIFE!

Get on successful date in Philadelphia

I like Philadelphia, I was raised there, and I am used to sun. Even thou lots of my friends like to go out and party, I am more of silent guy, I like to read books, on hiking, and what I love the most is going to museums. In my country there is lot of museums, like museum of the American Revolution, Philadelphia`s Historic District. I visit them at least once a month, even thou I have been there a lot of times.

In general I like American historical culture, pretty attractive to female I bet hehe. I tried to meet some girls that I saw in museums but they are mostly shy or not too much interested, and I am not bad looking guy, I workout in gym, and I do run regularly. So I like to stay in shape.

I was talking to a guard in museum and he actually introduced me to a site that he uses lol. He was 64 and he still wanted to meet a woman, but because of he`s age it was not possible to meet a woman in real, or at least pretty hard. So I took advice from him, and tried to see my luck on a dating site.

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I am African American, and there were lots of girls of my skin color also so that was relief to me. I still don’t believe that there is a girl that much into museums like I was, but we will see, at least that will want to go with me to my favorite place, museums. After couple of days that I joined, I was not going online at all, totally forgot that I joined lol.

I logged in for the weekend and saw a couple of messages from girls, I was surprised really. But most of them I didn’t not liked, I would like that my girl be same as me, physically active and had some kind of hobby. So my excitement became very low very fast. But still was not losing hope, since I knew I had hard time talking to girls in real. A months have passed and still nothing, and that guard in my museum have already met 2 woman! It`s so crazy, I was totally jealous.

And decided that I will meet some girl in the next week. So I started talking to a lot of girls in hoping I would meet some, or at least like someone. And I did, I liked a few, but wanted to build up chemistry so that we could enjoy stuff together, and have respect for each other desires. And after some time I found a girl that is totally by my standards, but was I to hers, we will see after she agreed to meet me.

We went for coffee and it was more like a business talk than a date lol, but that is who I am, and I guess that is who she was also. A really nice evening. I kissed her on cheek, and we said goodbye, and she even texted me that she enjoyed evening with me, it was super relaxed, and the thought that I love museums, made he feel good because I could be someone special in her life. A man that can respect her. So I decided to call her for morning jogging, a slow run, so we could be healthy and enjoy time together. She also wanted to be who could run faster from point A to point B, I knew I could win, but I let her win of course . And she knew that, which was cute to her also.

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We are in relationship for couple of months, it`s not much, but I like my relationship status now, I could go to museums and not fear that she will make fun of me because of it. She actually goes with me couple of time. We are both aware that history is a big part of today, and we should respect it, and will also make us better people not to make mistakes like our forebears. I know it made me a better person, and so it will affect her. I know we are just a couple of month together but I can easy say that I met best woman that I have till no. And if all stays like this, I will want to marry her. So this dating site,, helped me as much as did to that guard at museum, nothing of this would be possible because of him haha.

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This seem interesting, a normal guy like me, i will try and see if i have any luck like you.
4 minutes ago | Leave comment
Awesome man, thank you
6 minutes ago | Leave comment
One of my friends is also on that site, maybe it`s time i join in.
7 minutes ago | Leave comment
I totally trust this, that is how me and my future husband met, a lovely story :)
9 minutes ago | Leave comment
Just enjoyed reading this, a nice way to put it, gratz man!
11 minutes ago | Leave comment
Has anyone here tried their luck on site?
12 minutes ago | Leave comment
I guess that is good chance for people that work a lot.
15 minutes ago | Leave comment
My husband actually met a girl like that when he was younger, he told me story, so i think for some people it works.
19 minutes ago | Leave comment
Really love this blog, amazing story, as an romantic soul i love to read something like this.
21 minutes ago | Leave comment
Keep going man, love your blog
22 minutes ago | Leave comment
I would like to join, did anyone else had experience like this?
25 minutes ago | Leave comment
I also heard of these sites, this story got me thinking now even more.
27 minutes ago | Leave comment
I love online dating, just gives you another confidence, i am on that site and i love it!
29 minutes ago | Leave comment
How can i join that site?
29 minutes ago | Leave comment
I too have heard of this site, and i heard a lot of story, but one is far the best!
30 minutes ago | Leave comment
Joined today, wish me luck..
31 minutes ago | Leave comment
Thanks man, you just gave me motivation for finding the love of my life.
1 hour ago | Leave comment
I am on that site, talked to several man and nothing, but this story gave me hope that there are good and nice man out there, you just need to look for them, amazing story!
1 hour ago | Leave comment