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Hello, my name is Damien. And I don’t usually talk about my private life, because since I was kid, I was always shy, and as I grew older, it seemed I get more and more shy and drawn into myself. Having a girl was never an option for me, and I thought that was normal so it was never a problem for me not having a girl.

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But there was time I really wanted it, and went with friends to bars. Clubs etc. but still nothing, they got girls and I haven’t, wich made me even more miserable. So I stopped doing that and just stay at home a lot and didn’t had much social life at all. Just me and internet.



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Surfing the internet one day, I came across a story of 2 people fallen in love over internet, my first thought that it was fake and haven’t pay much attention to it. And one night I was thinking what if it wasn’t fake, what if its real! I was so hyped and tried it first thing in morning. Found a lot of fake sites, and I could not just trust if the girl is real or not. Then I came across cam site, where girls are actually chatting with you with camera turned on, and I could see with who I was chatting!

I tried with few girls but we didn’t seem to have anything in common, until there was one girl wich I thought we could not have anything in common. But we did, and as more and more we talked, I realized I was falling in love. And next few chats I was afraid to express my feelings at all, because I never did it LOL. So next time I asked her if she would like to meet…

Of course she said yes! I was so surprised that a girl actually wanted to go to date with me, but again, I was scared if she is doing it just for fun and that would not show up. But I decided to give it a go, what could I lose. I waited for her at a bar where we decided to meet. She was late 15 minutes, and I already started to feel bad, and started to pack to go home, but then there she was, I could not describe how happy I was at that moment, we hugged and she sat across me, and I stared at her, just could not believe she was there!

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We had amazing night, and I could not realize that I was so relaxed with a girl, maybe it was because of her, that made me so relaxed and that she looks inside of a man, and not how he is from outside. We went home and I could not sleep of excitement! Tomorrow I sent her message if she would want to go on a date with me again, she said yes! I thought this could be a real relationship.

The day was same as last time and I was more relaxed, and even tried to kiss her on lips at end of date, and she was up for it. So I guess we are in relationship from that point. We are now together for 2 years, and who would have ever know that I could meet a girl of my dreams online on camera dating site, its just amazing. If anyone have a problem like me, with lack of confidence, you are welcome to try, IT CHANGED MY LIFE!

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My story Is kind of story when you want to have more than you can take, or to hold off too much. But that is how I was when I first joined that site, because option with camera made me hooked to it. Since I Lived in Portland, and the city is known for traveling and its forest. Lots of people came because of it, so I had good chance to meet a girl that is not from city.

And I did before, but when the weather is bad I stayed home and tried to date online. And I am talker, I like to talk, so eventually, I would be the same in online dating. And to tell you it`s much better when you see a girl on camera as you talk to her. And I started a conversations with lots of girls just to see with who I could create something or not, or at least see her and boost my confidence hehe.

And I talked with as many girls that I could, with some I planned to meet, and with some was just to keep on talking to someone. And I liked some, and some I didn’t. But I liked my situation there and started thinking should I try to meet some of them.

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One girl in particular was interested in me since we were talking a lot, and we have met because she asked me to, and I was more than ready to meet her. The date was amazing, she was into me as much as I was in her. And when we came home, I logged in to site, and just continued talking to other girls, of course I remained in contact with my first girl and saw her a couple more time.

To be honest, she thought we were in relationship from day one. I could not just end it with her like that, and I didn’t want to. I agreed to meet another girl also, she was different, she had her attitude but something was just special about her. I could not tell why, but I liked her a lot. And now I am in position that I am seeing two girls which I both liked.

So only think normally was to still be on site haha. I wanted to meet anther girl also which I liked, so maybe then I could decide which one do I like best. So I did, I met the with third one, and she was just gorgeous blonde, I admired her a lot because she was so stubborn in some stuff, and she always said whatever was on her mind, so I thought maybe I could chose her, I don’t know. So as soon as I went home, I didn’t want to be on that site as much, because now I was seeing 3 girls and had no clue what the hell should I do now.

I was on a date first the girl that I met first from site, and second girl has keep testing me, and when I went to bathroom, I realized I forgot my phone at my table that we were, and the texts just kept on popping. I knew she must have seen something, so she told me as soon as I came, who is that its texting me, who is that girl. And I told her the truth, no point in lying. And she didn’t liked it of course. But she made me tell that to my second girl I was seeing. After some arguing I did it also. She has same reaction, and I have now lost both of them because I was too greedy. But I still had that blonde girl that I adored. When I went on date with her next time, I was really not thinking of telling her anything, but it was eating me from inside.

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So I told her, and she appreciated that I was honest, but could not continue with me, because she thought if I did it once I can do it again. And I respected her decision. So now I am left with no girl, just because I was too greedy and thought I had choice in my hands but was wrong. So for me, where you can see her in camera is no different than real, you just have to be real with yourself and be honest and happiness will come to you.

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This seem interesting, a normal guy like me, i will try and see if i have any luck like you.
4 minutes ago | Leave comment
Awesome man, thank you
6 minutes ago | Leave comment
One of my friends is also on that site, maybe it`s time i join in.
7 minutes ago | Leave comment
I totally trust this, that is how me and my future husband met, a lovely story :)
9 minutes ago | Leave comment
Just enjoyed reading this, a nice way to put it, gratz man!
11 minutes ago | Leave comment
Has anyone here tried their luck on site?
12 minutes ago | Leave comment
I guess that is good chance for people that work a lot.
15 minutes ago | Leave comment
My husband actually met a girl like that when he was younger, he told me story, so i think for some people it works.
19 minutes ago | Leave comment
Really love this blog, amazing story, as an romantic soul i love to read something like this.
21 minutes ago | Leave comment
Keep going man, love your blog
22 minutes ago | Leave comment
I would like to join, did anyone else had experience like this?
25 minutes ago | Leave comment
I also heard of these sites, this story got me thinking now even more.
27 minutes ago | Leave comment
I love online dating, just gives you another confidence, i am on that site and i love it!
29 minutes ago | Leave comment
How can i join that site?
29 minutes ago | Leave comment
I too have heard of this site, and i heard a lot of story, but one is far the best!
30 minutes ago | Leave comment
Joined today, wish me luck..
31 minutes ago | Leave comment
Thanks man, you just gave me motivation for finding the love of my life.
1 hour ago | Leave comment
I am on that site, talked to several man and nothing, but this story gave me hope that there are good and nice man out there, you just need to look for them, amazing story!
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