Hello, my name is Damien. And I don’t usually talk about my private life, because since I was kid, I was always shy, and as I grew older, it seemed I get more and more shy and drawn into myself. Having a girl was never an option for me, and I thought that was normal so it was never a problem for me not having a girl.
But there was time I really wanted it, and went with friends to bars. Clubs etc. but still nothing, they got girls and I haven’t, wich made me even more miserable. So I stopped doing that and just stay at home a lot and didn’t had much social life at all. Just me and internet.
Surfing the internet one day, I came across a story of 2 people fallen in love over internet, my first thought that it was fake and haven’t pay much attention to it. And one night I was thinking what if it wasn’t fake, what if its real! I was so hyped and tried it first thing in morning. Found a lot of fake sites, and I could not just trust if the girl is real or not. Then I came across cam site, where girls are actually chatting with you with camera turned on, and I could see with who I was chatting!
I tried with few girls but we didn’t seem to have anything in common, until there was one girl wich I thought we could not have anything in common. But we did, and as more and more we talked, I realized I was falling in love. And next few chats I was afraid to express my feelings at all, because I never did it LOL. So next time I asked her if she would like to meet…
Of course she said yes! I was so surprised that a girl actually wanted to go to date with me, but again, I was scared if she is doing it just for fun and that would not show up. But I decided to give it a go, what could I lose. I waited for her at a bar where we decided to meet. She was late 15 minutes, and I already started to feel bad, and started to pack to go home, but then there she was, I could not describe how happy I was at that moment, we hugged and she sat across me, and I stared at her, just could not believe she was there!
We had amazing night, and I could not realize that I was so relaxed with a girl, maybe it was because of her, that made me so relaxed and that she looks inside of a man, and not how he is from outside. We went home and I could not sleep of excitement! Tomorrow I sent her message if she would want to go on a date with me again, she said yes! I thought this could be a real relationship.
The day was same as last time and I was more relaxed, and even tried to kiss her on lips at end of date, and she was up for it. So I guess we are in relationship from that point. We are now together for 2 years, and who would have ever know that I could meet a girl of my dreams online on camera dating site, its just amazing. If anyone have a problem like me, with lack of confidence, you are welcome to try datecamgirl.net, IT CHANGED MY LIFE!
I want to add to this, that as an overweight person, I was never thinking to join a site like this. When you are overweight, you just want to lose weight, and live a normal life. But I like food a lot, so always had troubles losing weight. After some time I decided to stop losing weight and just enjoy my life as I am. But as the time passed by, I got tired of being alone, got tired always coming to empty house.
And coming to work was also depressive, I work at San Antonio National Historical Park, and there are lots of young people who come to enjoy life and our culture that was before, I felt little jealous looking them like that. Always in groups and laughing. I needed to change something in my life, I needed to become more social.
I knew about datecamgirls.net for some time now, but I did not want to join because of the reason I was overweight, and my confidence is as small as I am big. But I wanted to know how does it actually feel like to talk to a girl, and maybe build something more.
When I joined first time, I haven’t even putted some pictures at all, and not to talk about camera. But I could not talk to anyone since I had no pictures, so I decided to put some to give it a full try. The thing that made me happy, and really thinking I have a chance, is that there were also some girls that were overweight like me.
I didn’t mind if they are overweight, I enjoy some meat hehe. And only thing left for me to do is to send a message and try to get some kind of communication if the girl is interested. So first thing I sent was if she likes my type of man, and a girl replied that she likes how her man treats her, and how does she feels with her.
I had to say that I had none experiences with girls, and that is she first girl I talk to, explained how she is first because I am overweight and didn’t had much confidence to try to talk to girls. Of course she could understand that, being overweight herself. And that we can take it slow and relax each other, and get comfortable. It was so good to feel understanding like that from another person, especially girl, and gave me little confidence boost. The conversation with her was just amazing, we almost liked same stuff, trying to meet each other as a person best as we could. .
I know at some point I will have to ask her to meet with me, we can`t talk forever. So I just told her, if she would want to meet me, when and where would she want it? She said yes but she would want to in about couple of weeks, maybe she was more shy than me, at least I hope that was it. And I was right, she said the reason for it was she needed to get relaxed, since I will be first man she will meet on this site. I agreed with her and just told her that she takes as much as time needed. When it came to meet, I offered to give her a tour of where I work, in National Historic Park here in San Antonio which she was ok, and in that place I felt most comfortable.
And it was first time coming to that place and not working, just enjoying like rest of the people, the feeling was so awesome. Of course I was nervous, and there was some moments of comfortable silence, nothing was on force. I felt it was maybe a first serious date for both of us, and at the end everything just went smoothly and nice. Guess datecamgirls.net site made me realize it doesn`t matter how you look, the most important thing is that you are a good person, and being a good person you will always attract people like that. Like it happened with me, and now I am happy beyond I ever imagined.