Ideal Dating coach in San Diego

Published on | written by : Marco from San Diego

Hello, my name is Damien. And I don’t usually talk about my private life, because since I was kid, I was always shy, and as I grew older, it seemed I get more and more shy and drawn into myself. Having a girl was never an option for me, and I thought that was normal so it was never a problem for me not having a girl.

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But there was time I really wanted it, and went with friends to bars. Clubs etc. but still nothing, they got girls and I haven’t, wich made me even more miserable. So I stopped doing that and just stay at home a lot and didn’t had much social life at all. Just me and internet.



How I found ideal date

Surfing the internet one day, I came across a story of 2 people fallen in love over internet, my first thought that it was fake and haven’t pay much attention to it. And one night I was thinking what if it wasn’t fake, what if its real! I was so hyped and tried it first thing in morning. Found a lot of fake sites, and I could not just trust if the girl is real or not. Then I came across cam site, where girls are actually chatting with you with camera turned on, and I could see with who I was chatting!

I tried with few girls but we didn’t seem to have anything in common, until there was one girl wich I thought we could not have anything in common. But we did, and as more and more we talked, I realized I was falling in love. And next few chats I was afraid to express my feelings at all, because I never did it LOL. So next time I asked her if she would like to meet…

Of course she said yes! I was so surprised that a girl actually wanted to go to date with me, but again, I was scared if she is doing it just for fun and that would not show up. But I decided to give it a go, what could I lose. I waited for her at a bar where we decided to meet. She was late 15 minutes, and I already started to feel bad, and started to pack to go home, but then there she was, I could not describe how happy I was at that moment, we hugged and she sat across me, and I stared at her, just could not believe she was there!

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We had amazing night, and I could not realize that I was so relaxed with a girl, maybe it was because of her, that made me so relaxed and that she looks inside of a man, and not how he is from outside. We went home and I could not sleep of excitement! Tomorrow I sent her message if she would want to go on a date with me again, she said yes! I thought this could be a real relationship.

The day was same as last time and I was more relaxed, and even tried to kiss her on lips at end of date, and she was up for it. So I guess we are in relationship from that point. We are now together for 2 years, and who would have ever know that I could meet a girl of my dreams online on camera dating site, its just amazing. If anyone have a problem like me, with lack of confidence, you are welcome to try, IT CHANGED MY LIFE!

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I don’t like when people hate on these type of stuff, online dating and such. Some people like me have no other choice to socialize other than that, since kid I had problems with my left leg and could not walk properly, so doctors advised my parents to be home schooled. Which I hated of course, but I had no other choice, as I grew older I had no friends and I spent a lot of time playing video games. Only “friends” I had, I had there.

It was ok when I was in virtual world, but when I would go to sleep, I was thinking how I was going to school, had normal life, girls etc.. and how I wanted to accomplish that. I knew about, but I didn’t knew about with camera, was so scared to try it. But what the hell, what could actually happen if I would try. So I joined the site in hope to at least have courage to start conversation with a girl, or to know how does it feels to actually talk with a girl!

I was so excited when I first joined, but like in real, I could not even start a conversation. I just looked at profiles and just looked at girl, like a stalker haha. I added info about me, everything they needed to know about me, even about my leg.

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I didn’t want to keep any secrets, wanted to be as honest as I could. So time has passed and I still haven’t talked to any of the girls, and one day a girl actually sent me message, I just saw it and didn’t want to reply because I thought some girl is bored and wanted to make fun of me, or just to kill time.

So I still haven’t answered her, and after a week she sent me another message saying why have I just seen the message. I had to reply on that, so I told her what was I thinking, I didn’t met she actually wanted to talk to me, because I had no girl before, and to me, she was above my league. She replied that she knows how that feels, and she had one eye totally blind, you could never tell, but as soon as she would tell that to a man, men would start to distant slowly from her.

I felt sorry for it, and that she actually knew how I was feeling. We started talking a lot more and more, and how this world is not fair place, and that only thing you have to do is to be perfect. It`s so nice to meet a person that you could actually talk a lot about, and that is not from some video game lol. I told her that I never had girl before, she was ok with and I was ok that she had some boyfriends before.

I asked her out, and when we met she gave kiss on cheek right away even thou I was on walking sticks and could not hug her, but I wanted to so much! I could notice that her one eye is a bit different than other, but to me, that was not problem at all! We had wonderful time! I wish my every day could be like that. So we continued to talk and to meet from time to time, I was liking it so much, so I said if she would be ok to be in relationship, she said yes of course. And she knew some doctor that could help me with my leg problem, to show me some exercises that I could do so I can walk on my own.

A total NEW dating experience

So after all this time I am with her, soon I will walk on my own, my leg is in much better state. And it all changed in my life since I met her, a woman that I thought I would never had in my life. I am so happy now, and I am doing everything that I can to make her happy and feel good. And so like that we are a normal couple, we both was scared to find a partner in real, so this has helped us both in our lives, and in searching for happiness. This would have not have happened if we haven’t joined dating site, like this with camera. I owe it all! So if you have doubts and have some bad opinion about it, let go those naysayers and just listen to yourself, you won`t be wrong!

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This seem interesting, a normal guy like me, i will try and see if i have any luck like you.
4 minutes ago | Leave comment
Awesome man, thank you
6 minutes ago | Leave comment
One of my friends is also on that site, maybe it`s time i join in.
7 minutes ago | Leave comment
I totally trust this, that is how me and my future husband met, a lovely story :)
9 minutes ago | Leave comment
Just enjoyed reading this, a nice way to put it, gratz man!
11 minutes ago | Leave comment
Has anyone here tried their luck on site?
12 minutes ago | Leave comment
I guess that is good chance for people that work a lot.
15 minutes ago | Leave comment
My husband actually met a girl like that when he was younger, he told me story, so i think for some people it works.
19 minutes ago | Leave comment
Really love this blog, amazing story, as an romantic soul i love to read something like this.
21 minutes ago | Leave comment
Keep going man, love your blog
22 minutes ago | Leave comment
I would like to join, did anyone else had experience like this?
25 minutes ago | Leave comment
I also heard of these sites, this story got me thinking now even more.
27 minutes ago | Leave comment
I love online dating, just gives you another confidence, i am on that site and i love it!
29 minutes ago | Leave comment
How can i join that site?
29 minutes ago | Leave comment
I too have heard of this site, and i heard a lot of story, but one is far the best!
30 minutes ago | Leave comment
Joined today, wish me luck..
31 minutes ago | Leave comment
Thanks man, you just gave me motivation for finding the love of my life.
1 hour ago | Leave comment
I am on that site, talked to several man and nothing, but this story gave me hope that there are good and nice man out there, you just need to look for them, amazing story!
1 hour ago | Leave comment