Relationship and Dating coach in San Francisco

Published on | written by : Marco from San Francisco

Hello, my name is Damien. And I don’t usually talk about my private life, because since I was kid, I was always shy, and as I grew older, it seemed I get more and more shy and drawn into myself. Having a girl was never an option for me, and I thought that was normal so it was never a problem for me not having a girl.

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But there was time I really wanted it, and went with friends to bars. Clubs etc. but still nothing, they got girls and I haven’t, wich made me even more miserable. So I stopped doing that and just stay at home a lot and didn’t had much social life at all. Just me and internet.



How I found a relationship

Surfing the internet one day, I came across a story of 2 people fallen in love over internet, my first thought that it was fake and haven’t pay much attention to it. And one night I was thinking what if it wasn’t fake, what if its real! I was so hyped and tried it first thing in morning. Found a lot of fake sites, and I could not just trust if the girl is real or not. Then I came across cam site, where girls are actually chatting with you with camera turned on, and I could see with who I was chatting!

I tried with few girls but we didn’t seem to have anything in common, until there was one girl wich I thought we could not have anything in common. But we did, and as more and more we talked, I realized I was falling in love. And next few chats I was afraid to express my feelings at all, because I never did it LOL. So next time I asked her if she would like to meet…

Of course she said yes! I was so surprised that a girl actually wanted to go to date with me, but again, I was scared if she is doing it just for fun and that would not show up. But I decided to give it a go, what could I lose. I waited for her at a bar where we decided to meet. She was late 15 minutes, and I already started to feel bad, and started to pack to go home, but then there she was, I could not describe how happy I was at that moment, we hugged and she sat across me, and I stared at her, just could not believe she was there!

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We had amazing night, and I could not realize that I was so relaxed with a girl, maybe it was because of her, that made me so relaxed and that she looks inside of a man, and not how he is from outside. We went home and I could not sleep of excitement! Tomorrow I sent her message if she would want to go on a date with me again, she said yes! I thought this could be a real relationship.

The day was same as last time and I was more relaxed, and even tried to kiss her on lips at end of date, and she was up for it. So I guess we are in relationship from that point. We are now together for 2 years, and who would have ever know that I could meet a girl of my dreams online on camera dating site, its just amazing. If anyone have a problem like me, with lack of confidence, you are welcome to try, IT CHANGED MY LIFE!

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The day has come, coming to my favorite city through Golden Gate Bridge, seeing Alcatraz, I can`t believe I am finally here. I dreamed of coming to this city since I was little. And now a man 27 years old coming to chase my dreams. I could not wait to see entire city, all by foot, walk and enjoy it.

But as soon as I started working, I realized work will take much of my time, I was working 10-12 hours a day. Only time I was free was the weekend, but I was so tired I just wanted to stay home. At least I saw Lombard street first thing I came. Also wanted to socialize a bit more. I`m young and I want to enjoy my life.

Finding a girlfriend in this city is not easy, since its big city, and always on a rush, people want accomplish what they want, chase their dreams, it`s nice to see. But also we all need some time off to enjoy. So I decided to try

Finding a date in San Francisco

I knew about online dating even before, but never tried it because I thought that could not work, and maybe most of girls are not serious, and some of girls are not real lol. But I had no other option in this city, and I needed a travel guide he he. So I joined and I saw there is a site where you can chat with girl and see her in same time! I was so surprised that actually exists, because I had no idea something like that is real until I saw it. Now I was excited every time I am coming home from work to see if it actually works and will I get lucky.

I started talking to few girls from this city and with most I had nothing in common, and most looked for a guy with lots of money. And I was nothing like that at the moment, just a guy trying to make it in this city. But I was living in my dream city so I did not cared much about those kind of girls, I was happy. After a month on the site, and talking to lots of girls I was losing hope, until I started talking with my current girlfriend. And she lived in San Francisco since she was born, which was amazing.

After some time I asked her I was new in town and I could use a tour guide to show me city, was good excuse to ask her out and it worked! We walked a lot that weekend and she showed me all the things I wanted to see, we had such a great time. And at the end of date, I had no courage to kiss her or try to kiss her, felt little bad about it. I could feel she was feeling the same. After few days I texted her to see if she would want to do something like that again since I enjoyed our date a lot, she agreed. Thank god! We went again, and I promised myself I will kiss her and be more relaxed.

I just could not believe, I am walking with a girl that I met online and I actually like her, and hopefully she liked me too. Such a strange feeling, but also very nice. And I gathered my courage at end of date and tried to kiss her, and she haven’t moved her head so she kissed back, wow! From that moment I realized it`s possible to meet a girl online, I just hoped things won`t change in future, and that we will stay together. Because we met online I wanted to be sure we are right for each other. As the time moved on, I realized we are good, doing everything together and enjoying, and that pressure that I met her online and that maybe she will change slowly went away, and I just relaxed and enjoyed my time with her.

A total NEW dating experience

And few of my friends also joined a dating site with cam like that, because they were inspired by our story he he. I was always against online dating, but after time passed by I gave it a chance and now I am together that with girl for 2 years. And hopefully my future wife. We have inspired our friends and people around us with our story, so I hope someone out there got also inspired and will try it. Especially if you are busy with work or shy person, talking to people online will boost your confidence, no matter if you meet someone or not. I recommend that you try it and see it for yourself if it works. I know it did for me, and I always remember the day when I joined, such a game changer for and my life. So if I found a love like that, anyone can.

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This seem interesting, a normal guy like me, i will try and see if i have any luck like you.
4 minutes ago | Leave comment
Awesome man, thank you
6 minutes ago | Leave comment
One of my friends is also on that site, maybe it`s time i join in.
7 minutes ago | Leave comment
I totally trust this, that is how me and my future husband met, a lovely story :)
9 minutes ago | Leave comment
Just enjoyed reading this, a nice way to put it, gratz man!
11 minutes ago | Leave comment
Has anyone here tried their luck on site?
12 minutes ago | Leave comment
I guess that is good chance for people that work a lot.
15 minutes ago | Leave comment
My husband actually met a girl like that when he was younger, he told me story, so i think for some people it works.
19 minutes ago | Leave comment
Really love this blog, amazing story, as an romantic soul i love to read something like this.
21 minutes ago | Leave comment
Keep going man, love your blog
22 minutes ago | Leave comment
I would like to join, did anyone else had experience like this?
25 minutes ago | Leave comment
I also heard of these sites, this story got me thinking now even more.
27 minutes ago | Leave comment
I love online dating, just gives you another confidence, i am on that site and i love it!
29 minutes ago | Leave comment
How can i join that site?
29 minutes ago | Leave comment
I too have heard of this site, and i heard a lot of story, but one is far the best!
30 minutes ago | Leave comment
Joined today, wish me luck..
31 minutes ago | Leave comment
Thanks man, you just gave me motivation for finding the love of my life.
1 hour ago | Leave comment
I am on that site, talked to several man and nothing, but this story gave me hope that there are good and nice man out there, you just need to look for them, amazing story!
1 hour ago | Leave comment