Hello, my name is Damien. And I don’t usually talk about my private life, because since I was kid, I was always shy, and as I grew older, it seemed I get more and more shy and drawn into myself. Having a girl was never an option for me, and I thought that was normal so it was never a problem for me not having a girl.
But there was time I really wanted it, and went with friends to bars. Clubs etc. but still nothing, they got girls and I haven’t, wich made me even more miserable. So I stopped doing that and just stay at home a lot and didn’t had much social life at all. Just me and internet.
Surfing the internet one day, I came across a story of 2 people fallen in love over internet, my first thought that it was fake and haven’t pay much attention to it. And one night I was thinking what if it wasn’t fake, what if its real! I was so hyped and tried it first thing in morning. Found a lot of fake sites, and I could not just trust if the girl is real or not. Then I came across cam site, where girls are actually chatting with you with camera turned on, and I could see with who I was chatting!
I tried with few girls but we didn’t seem to have anything in common, until there was one girl wich I thought we could not have anything in common. But we did, and as more and more we talked, I realized I was falling in love. And next few chats I was afraid to express my feelings at all, because I never did it LOL. So next time I asked her if she would like to meet…
Of course she said yes! I was so surprised that a girl actually wanted to go to date with me, but again, I was scared if she is doing it just for fun and that would not show up. But I decided to give it a go, what could I lose. I waited for her at a bar where we decided to meet. She was late 15 minutes, and I already started to feel bad, and started to pack to go home, but then there she was, I could not describe how happy I was at that moment, we hugged and she sat across me, and I stared at her, just could not believe she was there!
We had amazing night, and I could not realize that I was so relaxed with a girl, maybe it was because of her, that made me so relaxed and that she looks inside of a man, and not how he is from outside. We went home and I could not sleep of excitement! Tomorrow I sent her message if she would want to go on a date with me again, she said yes! I thought this could be a real relationship.
The day was same as last time and I was more relaxed, and even tried to kiss her on lips at end of date, and she was up for it. So I guess we are in relationship from that point. We are now together for 2 years, and who would have ever know that I could meet a girl of my dreams online on camera dating site, its just amazing. If anyone have a problem like me, with lack of confidence, you are welcome to try datecamgirl.net, IT CHANGED MY LIFE!
How I heard about this site is kind of amazing. Since I like to read a lot, and at home I really can`t that peaceful time for a long time, I am spending most of the times reading at Dr. Martin Luther King here in San Jose here. The most beautiful and biggest library for me there is, and I am sure for everyone that lives in San Jose. Ever since I was a kid I wear glasses, and I always like to read, and was always good at school.
Somehow I enjoyed a book more than being out with friends. Maybe it`s strange for someone, but for me that is just what I enjoyed, and where I felt most comfortable. Most people that came there to read a lot, were like me, not so much social, but enjoyed a good book more than friends. So I had couple of friends from library that we talked a little before reading.
And one day, because there were some few girls in our reading company lol, one girl told me how she met a guy on datecamgirls.net, she joined a dating site that have a camera where you can chat and see person you chat with in same time. Up before that point I was never even interested to talk to some girl with a purpose of being with her. And her statement haven’t made me change my mind about it, but it got me thinking more and more and more. What if I should make a profile there, and maybe start to talk to some girls, what if I stop losing interests in books or something like that. But after few weeks of thinking, I decided to try it.
But what could I talk to a girl, should they find reading boring, video games boring. Maybe I just risk it, and there will be girls that also reading like that my friend that told me about this site after all. I stated in my profile that I like to read, and that I spend a lot of time reading at Dr. Martin Luther King Library, and like to enjoy quiet times and times for myself.
No girls really started to talk to me lol, but I was looking at a lot of profiles of girls. Some of them have their hobbies about reading, just did not knew if they liked to read in a public library like I do. I just sent to one girl “What is your favorite book”. Now when I think of it, it didn’t sound anything macho or something like that, but its best I could do, and felt proud about it. And when I sent I still haven’t felt like I could meet a girl like that, just because I was not some guy that likes to party or enjoy life how other people think it`s normal.
And that girl actually replied to me, that her favorite book is Lord Of The Rings, which I found amazing to be. I have red that book for 2 times already. I wanted to talk to her more and more ever since she told me that. And so we did, mostly we talked about reading, and other things we enjoyed doing. Most of the stuff were about our life, that didn’t included party, getting drunk etc.. We would much more enjoy a coffee and read a book.
Also we both loved nature, like we both didn’t like the world that is now, and much more enjoyed fantasy world. I asked her if she would like to go with me to Library I always go to, have a coffee and spend a nice afternoon reading a book and talking a bit to get to know each other better in real. And she said yes! I could see she is just like me, and I am glad there are girls like this in the world. If I didn’t joined this site I would still think there are no girls that enjoy this type of stuff like I do, but I was wrong and there is.
So we spent a couple of days like that, and now we are in relationship enjoying stuff that is normal for us and that we both enjoy. So if you have a doubt, and think there is no girl that likes your type of stuff that is not by standards of today, you are wrong. I think online, there is something for everyone, you just have to get out of your comfort zone and do it.