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Published on | written by : Marco from Seattle

Hello, my name is Damien. And I don’t usually talk about my private life, because since I was kid, I was always shy, and as I grew older, it seemed I get more and more shy and drawn into myself. Having a girl was never an option for me, and I thought that was normal so it was never a problem for me not having a girl.

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But there was time I really wanted it, and went with friends to bars. Clubs etc. but still nothing, they got girls and I haven’t, wich made me even more miserable. So I stopped doing that and just stay at home a lot and didn’t had much social life at all. Just me and internet.



How I found a Matchmaker

Surfing the internet one day, I came across a story of 2 people fallen in love over internet, my first thought that it was fake and haven’t pay much attention to it. And one night I was thinking what if it wasn’t fake, what if its real! I was so hyped and tried it first thing in morning. Found a lot of fake sites, and I could not just trust if the girl is real or not. Then I came across cam site, where girls are actually chatting with you with camera turned on, and I could see with who I was chatting!

I tried with few girls but we didn’t seem to have anything in common, until there was one girl wich I thought we could not have anything in common. But we did, and as more and more we talked, I realized I was falling in love. And next few chats I was afraid to express my feelings at all, because I never did it LOL. So next time I asked her if she would like to meet…

Of course she said yes! I was so surprised that a girl actually wanted to go to date with me, but again, I was scared if she is doing it just for fun and that would not show up. But I decided to give it a go, what could I lose. I waited for her at a bar where we decided to meet. She was late 15 minutes, and I already started to feel bad, and started to pack to go home, but then there she was, I could not describe how happy I was at that moment, we hugged and she sat across me, and I stared at her, just could not believe she was there!

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We had amazing night, and I could not realize that I was so relaxed with a girl, maybe it was because of her, that made me so relaxed and that she looks inside of a man, and not how he is from outside. We went home and I could not sleep of excitement! Tomorrow I sent her message if she would want to go on a date with me again, she said yes! I thought this could be a real relationship.

The day was same as last time and I was more relaxed, and even tried to kiss her on lips at end of date, and she was up for it. So I guess we are in relationship from that point. We are now together for 2 years, and who would have ever know that I could meet a girl of my dreams online on camera dating site, its just amazing. If anyone have a problem like me, with lack of confidence, you are welcome to try, IT CHANGED MY LIFE!

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Start of my story is kind of sad, because I was with my girl together for over 8 years then, since we were both 23. We were living together for about 6 years. But I could feel there is more and more tension in our relationship, even thoughts that we are maybe not right for each other. We stayed together because we didn’t want to end something that is going for such a long time. But after some time we both realized it`s time to end it, that this is really not going for both of us.

Better to be alone than with someone who you don’t feel good with. And we separated, I felt so devastated, like my world is going to end, my life is going to end, no more chance for me. I thought I would be forever with her, and now I have to move on, and have zero experience with woman now, how will I do it, will I do. I could not sleep because of pressure of this stuff for few days. After some days I was getting more and more calm, enjoying my life as I could.

One day while I was at the top of space needle building in Seattle, the best building there is for me in the world. I started to think what should I do with my life now, it was night and I watched at stars and thinking, unique feeling to be alone just with your thoughts. How could I meet a new girl or should I meet new girl, I decided I want to have woman by my side so how could I do it now that I don’t have any experience with woman at all.

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This thought came through my head while I was deep thinking like that. Should I try to meet a girl over internet or no, I was always against that since you can`t feel persons real emotions. Considering my current situation I had no choice, and I realized I need to try it, at least for start, had no expectations at all. Joined some online dating site, but it actually had it with cam, which I thought it was much more interesting and more trust worthy experience.

I don’t know if its luck or what but first girl I met there I liked, I thought I was sure she has same opinion of me, but I was wrong. Like I needed to prove myself a lot to her, and I had nothing against that, I like girls that are hard to get. Meaning they are a keeper haha. And I tried my best to win her, we talked for a long time and she was not still ok to meet with me. She noticed I didn’t liked that more and more so she agreed to meet with me finally, she is two years younger than me so we were perfect match, at least for my opinion.

She was a little bit shy girl, I had to do most of the talking, the thing that shocked me is that her last relationship was 5 years ago. That is a long time. I told her my “love” story how we ended up after nearly 10 years, and that I am new in this game also. She was happy to hear that I had lack of experience like her haha, and from that moment she was more and more relaxed, she was even better person than I met online, so naturally I started to get feelings for her.

Also wanted to to see how was she, and what did she felt towards me, if she felt anything. So we agreed to meet again, and I took her to a place where I first thought of online dating, that’s right, Space needle. We were at top and it was dark, on same place where I thought of online dating. I told her my feelings and at first she was confused but at end she told me she was feeling the same but wanted to joke with me a little lol. After that I went on to kiss her, which she agreed on and that is where we first kissed, on same place I thought of When I told her that story she thought it was so romantic and it will be a moment that we will always keep In our memories and our hearts. We are now together for almost 2 years, and soon we will marry.

A total NEW dating experience

So people, it`s never too late for anything if you want it. If I have listened to myself I would remain single till the rest of my life, but my inner voice was right and I listened to it and It turned out to be good for me. saved my love life literally, I would recommend it to everyone, if you don’t have time or you are too shy or anything, don’t make excuses and just do it, join and you will see. I promise you it will be some new experience in your life and it will change it for good, no matter if you meet someone or not. Everyone deserves a new experience in life, and I had luck to be the best one, all thanks to online dating and with cam.

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This seem interesting, a normal guy like me, i will try and see if i have any luck like you.
4 minutes ago | Leave comment
Awesome man, thank you
6 minutes ago | Leave comment
One of my friends is also on that site, maybe it`s time i join in.
7 minutes ago | Leave comment
I totally trust this, that is how me and my future husband met, a lovely story :)
9 minutes ago | Leave comment
Just enjoyed reading this, a nice way to put it, gratz man!
11 minutes ago | Leave comment
Has anyone here tried their luck on site?
12 minutes ago | Leave comment
I guess that is good chance for people that work a lot.
15 minutes ago | Leave comment
My husband actually met a girl like that when he was younger, he told me story, so i think for some people it works.
19 minutes ago | Leave comment
Really love this blog, amazing story, as an romantic soul i love to read something like this.
21 minutes ago | Leave comment
Keep going man, love your blog
22 minutes ago | Leave comment
I would like to join, did anyone else had experience like this?
25 minutes ago | Leave comment
I also heard of these sites, this story got me thinking now even more.
27 minutes ago | Leave comment
I love online dating, just gives you another confidence, i am on that site and i love it!
29 minutes ago | Leave comment
How can i join that site?
29 minutes ago | Leave comment
I too have heard of this site, and i heard a lot of story, but one is far the best!
30 minutes ago | Leave comment
Joined today, wish me luck..
31 minutes ago | Leave comment
Thanks man, you just gave me motivation for finding the love of my life.
1 hour ago | Leave comment
I am on that site, talked to several man and nothing, but this story gave me hope that there are good and nice man out there, you just need to look for them, amazing story!
1 hour ago | Leave comment